Ibinida ng social media personality na si Cassandra Yu na kasal na sila noong Mayo 22, 2022 ng kaniyang boyfriend na si NorthPort Batang Pier basketball player ng Philippine Basketball Association (PBA) na si Robert Bolick.
Ibinahagi ni Cassandra sa kaniyang Facebook post noong Mayo 23 ang mga detalye tungkol dito.
“Mr. & Mrs. Bolick everyone!” panimula ng kaniyang mahabang Facebook post.
“Two months ago, 3/22/22, I married the love of my life in an intimate civil wedding ceremony in Cebu.”
“My love, It’s only been a year but damn it feels like i’ve known you for a long time!”
Sinariwa ni Cassandra ang kanilang unang pagde-date ni Robert.
“I remember our first date so well that it lasted so long winkwink hahaha and I knew right away, from the moment I laid my eyes on you zing that you’re THE ONE! The following months came by so fast and the rest was history! We planned our vacation in Cebu after your bubble and you met with my family. A week after that, you proposed to me and we got engaged in October!”
“The journey wasn’t easy my love but always remember, at the end of the day it’s gonna be you and me! Those challenges didn’t break us my love, what’s important is that we both know the truth. And Look at us now, we’re stronger than ever!”
“Thank you to God for always guiding us and protecting us. We made a vow to make him the center of our marriage. To my family for being so supportive and seeing the truth above anything else.”
“5 months later, Here We Are!💍 #MR&MRS!”
“My husband, thank you for coming into my life. God’s timing is always right. You truly are His answered prayer for me. Thank you for showing me what agape love is. Thank you for your constant effort – I appreciate it, I appreciate you. Thank you for keeping your promises and for always proving to me everyday that I’m that someone for you – your best friend, number 1 fan, food-party-travel buddy, lifetime partner, fiancé and now, your wife!”
“You make me a better person my love. Thank you for always making me happy. Thank you for preparing and cooking me goooood food after my work even if I finish late and you are on a strict diet. I’m really blessed to have you. My love, i will never get tired of serving you you’re favorite breakfast every morning. I will always wait for you after your practices and welcome you home with a tight hug! (Daliiii na diri ba!) I will always watch your games and be your number 1 fan.”
“I will always look forward in spending idle moments with you, talking about anything and if what life has to offer. We are the perfect match my love! You are my strength and at the same time my weakness. I promise to choose and love you everyday my love. I will be here for you always and i will support you in every decision and plans that you make. I will never be ready for anyone else but you my love. You will always be my ONE and ONLY. You’re my HOME. Corinthians 13:7.”
“Who cares what the world’s gonna say? Cause you know they’re gonna say it anyway. They don’t know about you and I, we’ve been rolling deeper than they’ll ever know”. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you and build our future family together my love! If makaya, let’s make a basketball team! Hahaha!”
Samantala, hindi rin naman nagpahuli si Robert sa pagbibigay ng matamis na mensahe para sa kaniyang misis.
“Dumating ako sa panahong ako ay nag-iisa at tanging paglalaro na lang basketball ang aking pinagkakaabalahan. Minsan ako ay nagtanong sa isang kaibigan, na baka sana ako ay matulungan. Mabigyan sana ng isang taong magmamahal. Bilang tugon ng kaibigan, ako ay naipakilala sa isang babaeng wala raw nagugustuhan.”
“Tinanggap ko ang hamon, sinuyo kita, niligawan at minahal kahit alam kong walang kasiguraduhan. Nagdasal ako sa Diyos at sinabi kong alam naman ‘yun ng Ginoo kung paano ako magmahal. Nabigla ako, oo nga at umasa ako pero di ko akalain na ito ay magiging agaran… ang buong akala ko ay maghihintay ako nang matagal. Nalulugod ang puso ko at mahal mo rin pala ako. Kaya’t nais kong sabihin sa buong Mundo kung bakit kita minamahal.”
“Minamahal kita dahil ikaw ang gusto kong maging ilaw ng dream house ko.”
“Minamahal kita dahil ikaw ang gusto kong maging nanay ng mga anak ko.”
“Minamahal kita dahil ikaw ang ibinigay ng universe sa akin.”
“Minamahal kita dahil ikaw ang gusto kong maging travel buddy ko.”
“Minamahal kita dahil ikaw ang gusto kong katabi sa pagtulog ko.”
“Minamahal kita dahil gusto kong paggising sa umaga ay ikaw ang makikita ko.”
“Minamahal kita dahil gusto kong ikaw kasabay sa aking pagkain..csa pagligo, sa pagpapahinga, basta sa lahat ng oras ikaw ang gusto kong kasama…”
“When I thought about my future wife ahmmm I wanted someone who would support my goals shower me in love share my dreams and care for me. On the day we married each other all of my wishes were granted. Meeting you was fate but falling in love with you was beyond my control if i did anything right in my life it was when i gave my heart to you.”
Ngunit sa kabila ng mga pagbati at mistulang fairy tale na kanilang kasal, tila hindi gusto ng ina ni Robert na si Zeny Bolick si Cassandra para sa kaniyang anak. Hindi raw nito ipinakilala sa kanila ang kasintahan.
“He (got) married without telling his parents what a shame, I don’t like this girl and she is not welcome in my house, either in Ormoc or in the US. I don’t even know what kind of a woman she is. He never introduced to us this woman.”
Pumalag naman dito ang nagpakilalang kapatid na babae ni Cassandra na nagngangalang ‘Maria Carmela Yu’ at tumugon sa komento ng ina ni Robert.
“And do you think we like your son? He has dragged my sister’s name into a mess that he created and he never stood up for it. He has been a bad influence, he has convinced my sister to proceed with the wedding without prior notice to our parents. They hid their marriage from us, our mother had to find out about it through someone else.”
“But you know what, despite how atrocious is your son’s behavior, we will be the better persons because we still welcomed your son in our home even if it wasn’t to our liking.”
Samantala, wala pang tugon ang ina ni Robert tungkol dito, bagama’t pumagitna na ang basketball player sa isang mahabang Facebook post upang ipaliwanag naman ang kanilang panig.