‘Betrayal is more painful than death’

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FOLLOW-UP ito sa nasulat namin dito sa Balita tungkol kay Ara Mina, na idinadawit sa paghihiwalay ng kaibigan niyang babae, na noong una ay hindi muna pinangalanan, at ng fiancé nitong government official.

Ara Mina

Malapit nang ikasal ang kaibigang babae at ang boyfriend nitong opisyal nang aksidente umanong mabasa ng girl ang mga mensahe ng kanyang fiancé kay Ara, na sinasabing karelasyon ng opisyal.

Ang babaeng kaibigan ni Ara ay si Ms Rina Navarro, na taga- Film Development Council of the Philippines (FDCP) at miyembro ng Cinema Evaluation Board (CEB). Ang fiancé naman niya ay si Department of Trade and Industry Undersecretary Dave Almarinez, na sinasabing karelasyon din daw ni Ara.

Hindi kaagad naglabas ng hinaing niya si Ms Rina, pero kamakailan ay nag-post siya sa kanyang Facebook account, at tinapos na rin niya ang relasyon nila ng kanyang fiancé. Ito pala ‘yung sitsit sa amin ng aming source na kaibigan din ng una na hindi na tuloy ang kasal.

“To be betrayed by the person you love, and by a person you consider your friend & treated like a sister is one of the most heart-breaking feeling to wake up to, every day. I can’t even find the most appropriate word to describe it.

“You see, I was widowed at the age of 25, but I fell in love again, and thought I was living a fairytale because we have been truly happy together. I thought that my husband’s death was the worst experience in my existence, but now I realized that betrayal is even more painful than death.

“I write this today, to ENCOURAGE women, first of all that despite any heartbreak that you might have had, or have at the moment, to have hope and believe in love, that it will come at the right time, and with the right person. You deserve respect and love. Always. And if this is not given to you, you have the power to give it to yourself.

“For every trial that comes your way, you can always stand up like I did—You may fall, men can crush you, your friends or your career may betray you, but you can always, always, stand up.

“I want to get out if this, not jaded about love, but hopeful, that God allowed this unfortunate and undeserved pain to happen to me, because He is preparing me for something greater. God will never fail to bring out the truth and take care of us. That is for sure.

“Today marks the 30th day of my journey that’s why, I’m very grateful for my family, friends, and my children who continue to give me the strength to face each day, renewed and stronger.

“As for the people who has hurt me, I want you to know that you might have broken my heart, but you have not crushed my spirit.

“So thank you, because in truth, what you have done to me, might have just saved me, without you knowing it.”

Samantala, pilit pa ring itinatanggi ni Ara na may relasyon sila ni Usec Almarinez, at iginiit na magkaibigan lang sila.

Bukas naman ang pahinang ito para sa opisyal na pahayag nina Ara at Usec Almarinez sa isyu.

-REGGEE BONOAN